#4 Give to help yourself

The general idea is that you should give until you succeed.  An author, Adam Grant, explaining in his forthcoming book Give and Take, how generosity helps you thrive, not fail - even in the most difficult situations. 

 

A simple thing that can really work: buy a cute top for your mother. Some researchers from the Harvard Business School, the Universityof British Columbia and Liège University have thus established that buying something for someone else - as long as it does not exceed a reasonable range of 2-10 pounds - makes you happier than buying the same thing for yourself . 

So don't hesitate to use your credit card for someone you love!

It will be beneficial for both of you!! :)